Applying for Aid & Assistance Benefit from VA
         
         
            
         
         
            
         Has anyone applied for Aid & Assistance from the VA for their parent? How long did it take for the VA to process the application? Were you able to obtain the A&A benefit while your parent was in memory care, or is it just for nursing home care?
Any advice in general?
I'm about to assemble an application for my mother, but I have a lot of questions about the application. The local VA office has a wait-time of several months before an appointment for help with the application will be available.
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I went through two different places. I went to the local VA clinic and I also found Veterans Benefit Counselor online for my state. You can also see if the facility or homecare business has a social worker that knows what is needed for the VA and can help you with forms as they may help other VA patients. I hope this helps
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