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Don't think I can do it

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  • Beachfan
    Beachfan Member Posts: 812
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    @ghphotog,

    Thinking about you and DW today. Whatever today brings, I’m hoping you are afforded some measure of peace. Stay strong; one day at a time.

  • ghphotog
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    There has been a little delay as I am waiting for our PCP to fill out her side of the health questioniare and it's taking a little longer to get funds out of our retirement account, 8-10 days. Possibly next week or the week after.

    Thank you Howboutnow for the encouragement! Means a lot. It's still so difficult for me as every night I still tell myself I can't do this as she will be searching everywhere for me sobbing when she can't find me, freaking out when they will try to clean and change her but I know it has to be done so I'm still moving forward. The nurse from the facility is coming over next Monday to do the eval.

  • M1
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    Thinking about you too today gh

  • ghphotog
    ghphotog Member Posts: 699
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    Thank you M1! Means a lot that you guys are thinking about me during this.

  • ButterflyWings
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    edited February 2024

    @ghphotog yes, we are thinking about you and sending loads of positive energy your way, whatever the day holds. * and I just read your update that it may be another week or so. Just keep breathing!

  • Ed1937
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    We're all thinking about you because we know you are really having a hard time with it. But just remember that it's for both of you. You will probably both be better off.

  • Caro_Lynne
    Caro_Lynne Member Posts: 388
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    @ghphotog also keeping you in my prayers. Such a difficult decision, however, you have been and are one of the most dedicated caregivers of your sweet DW. Your situation brings tears to my eyes. I cry for you and all of us who have to deal with the decisions we have to make. xo

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