Don't think I can do it
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There has been a little delay as I am waiting for our PCP to fill out her side of the health questioniare and it's taking a little longer to get funds out of our retirement account, 8-10 days. Possibly next week or the week after.
Thank you Howboutnow for the encouragement! Means a lot. It's still so difficult for me as every night I still tell myself I can't do this as she will be searching everywhere for me sobbing when she can't find me, freaking out when they will try to clean and change her but I know it has to be done so I'm still moving forward. The nurse from the facility is coming over next Monday to do the eval.
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Thinking about you too today gh
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Thank you Beachfan!
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Thank you M1! Means a lot that you guys are thinking about me during this.
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@ghphotog yes, we are thinking about you and sending loads of positive energy your way, whatever the day holds. * and I just read your update that it may be another week or so. Just keep breathing!
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We're all thinking about you because we know you are really having a hard time with it. But just remember that it's for both of you. You will probably both be better off.
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@ghphotog also keeping you in my prayers. Such a difficult decision, however, you have been and are one of the most dedicated caregivers of your sweet DW. Your situation brings tears to my eyes. I cry for you and all of us who have to deal with the decisions we have to make. xo
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