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POSITIVE BALANCE

VKB
VKB Member Posts: 336
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When I was a caregiver, I was on a seesaw. One side was attending to the needs of those I cared for, and the other side was attending to my own needs. Both sides were important. Both sides needed attention. The aim was to keep the seesaw balanced so one side did not go crashing to the ground. Perhaps looking back, I understand better that balance should be the aim, but sometimes one side needs lots more attention. It is then safe, smart plans must be made gently so no one gets hurt.

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  • Anonymousjpl123
    Anonymousjpl123 Member Posts: 698
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    This is very much how I feel. Thank you for putting it into words.

  • dblus
    dblus Member Posts: 1
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    I totally understand but since I have taken 10 hours a week for myself I have felt so much better. I have had to move in with my 87year old father when my mom passed away 8 months ago & now have been trying to get some relief for myself, much needed.

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