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Food Obsessions

Daisie
Daisie Member Posts: 84
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My 90 YO mom with mixed dementia has become OCD for lack of a better descriptor about food expiration dates. I clearly write purchased and opened dates on everything with a sharpie but there still no trust and we waste a lot of money on food because she constantly throws it away when it’s perfectly fine She says it tastes sour or has a weird texture. She tells me she can’t trust my judgement so she has to check before I cook anything.

Can anyone relate?

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  • towhee
    towhee Member Posts: 472
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    With my LO it was the opposite problem. Every time I tried to throw something away she would sniff it and declare it was perfectly fine. I had to clean out the fridge when she was occupied in her closet or risk a argument.

  • M1
    M1 Member Posts: 6,788
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    Hi Daisie. Taste perception can change with dementia, I wonder if that's contributing to the problem. Some medications can also have taste side effects. I believe she lives with you? You may have to limit her access to the kitchen, including locking the refrigerator.

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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