New diagnosis

Spackle

M1

Welcome to the forum, you have come to a good place for advice and support. Look to the right under Quick Links and Groups, and there is one for new members with a lot of useful information. Early advice always starts with getting your legal affairs in order and taking a careful look at your finances as you start your planning for the future. Memory care is an expensive proposition. Even if you want to care for him at home (most start out that way), a wise member here recently said that you need to make a plan, not a wish, including backup plans should something happen to you. This is especially important if there is not other family to step in. Unless you can afford to pay privately for memory care you should investigate how to qualify him for long-term Medicaid in your state; a certified elder law attorney can help with that (look at nelf.org to find lists by location).

If you read a lot of threads here you will learn much, including things you haven't thought of yet, and it will help you feel less alone in this long and difficult journey.

Rocky2

Spackle, Welcome to the forum and sorry for the reason you are here. I trust that you will find this to be a place to learn by reading the many and various posts, to seek information and advice, and to post your thoughts, or maybe just vent. I know I have found understanding, received good advice and have been educated and supported. This journey can be isolating and hard. Know that you are not alone but, rather, part of a community of caregivers.

Tom