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Caregiver costs

Maggie M
Maggie M Member Posts: 11
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I am at the stage with my DH that I may be needing care during the night so I can get sleep. Due to the cost of caregivers for 12 hrs, it is cost prohibitive. Any ideas?

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  • Crkddy
    Crkddy Member Posts: 84
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    Maggie M, I have never checked into the cost of nighttime care. I do pay for care during the daytime, but not all day. It can vary depending upon whether you use a service or contractor, and of course the difference in what these folks choose to charge. In my area, contractor charges seem to start around $18/hr. I currently pay $26/hr for a CNA 2 thru a service. I do hope you are able to find some relief.

  • Maggie M
    Maggie M Member Posts: 11
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    Crkddy, I have 16 hrs, 4 days-4 hrs in the am , through the VA as my husband is a veteran. I am blessed for that. There is mo charge for that. I have 3 hrs thru our local elderly services at $31 an hr ( that is a discount). They are all CNA's. I haven't called an agency to find out how much an hour for a night (12 hrs) but would assume it would be $35 an hr and up. If he wasn't incontinent, one of children could stay with him. It's just so darn difficult and won't get ant easier.

  • ImMaggieMae
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    Another Maggie! Welcome to the forum. We have a caregiver through an agency who I pay for some respite time to do grocery shopping, medical appointments and paying bills and such. It is $35 hr, 3 days per week, 4 hours each day (which is their minimum). Typical rates in this area using an agency are about $35 to $45 per hour.

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 878
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    have you talked to his doctor about medication to help him sleep?

  • ImMaggieMae
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    Maggie M, definitely talk to his doctor about medications to help with sleep. My DH takes Risperidone and sleeps at least 9 hours.

  • Judy.T.
    Judy.T. Member Posts: 44
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    Our town's council on aging gives vouchers $800 ever 6 months for care. Check what your town offers if anything. Also DH has insurance that gives me 8 hours a month of in house care.

  • Maggie M
    Maggie M Member Posts: 11
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    Thanks Judy T. will definitely look into that.

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