Absolutely CRAZY in the mornings
Every morning now since a month or so ..
She is totally confused, agitated, shaking, paces back and forth in the kitchen , crying, does not want to live anymore, terrified of not understanding her surroundings, does not know what to do …
Then slowly she calms herself , we supervise her while she makes her coffee, her breakfast, watch her eat ..
then at around 11 ish , she is totally normal for the rest of the day !
What is that ?
Sundowning in the morning?
Doctor just increased her antidepressant Citalopram to 10 mg a day , will it help or is it just the way the disease is affecting her .
Will she be living this morning hell every day from now on ?
She lives in an assisted living facility, with help with medication, a bit of personal hygiene etc.
She will be moved to a memory care unit as soon as we can , in the next few weeks
My question is will this be the new normal for her ?
Will having her in a memory care unit help or not ?
Anyone else experiencing morning hell ?
Comments
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You cannot predict the trajectory of her disease with much accuracy, but as she progresses, she may become less reactive, but more apathetic. That was the experience of my mother
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my Mom ‘Sun-upped’. We found that a combination of anti-anxiety and depression medications worked. It took a couple tries to get the right ones. She is currently on sertraline and mitrazipine. Mirtrazipine also aids with sleep.
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Medications may help. Memory care may also help, if they have activities at her level that can distract her. Progression also sees the decline of symptoms from earlier stages.
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My dw was like that every morning for years. Still is but now in memory care. She is extremely agitated, afraid, emotional, cries, yells and screams at me as I hold her and try to comfort her while she sobs. It's a horrible disease.
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