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A Circle of Care

My wife of 57 years passed away three months ago after several years of progressing through the Alzheimer's disease. I thank the members of this website for providing invaluable support and ideas on how to cope. I know what many of you are feeling.

Early on I started developing what I called a Circle of Care—people that I could communicate with who were supportive. Little did I know how invaluable that would become when needed most.

Your situation may be different, but if its close to mine, I can tell you that others do have compassion for what you are going through. They may be reluctant to convey their feelings to you, but if you stay connected with them, they will be there when you need it the most.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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