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Merla
Merla Member Posts: 50
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edited September 29 in Caring for a Parent

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  • sandwichone123
    sandwichone123 Member Posts: 797
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    Merla, Estate planning is important if there's much estate, but the priorities are DPOA and medical POA and healthcare directive, and an estate lawyer won't help with those. For these a general lawyer would be better. Make sure the POAs are not "springing," that is, they go into effect immediately.

  • housefinch
    housefinch Member Posts: 434
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    You might look for an attorney who does special needs estate planning—those same attorneys often do elder law

  • Victoriaredux
    Victoriaredux Member Posts: 137
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    Your prior questions are all erased and I don't remember your whole saga but if you are going for guardianship you'll want an attorney who handles a number of them as part of their regular practice. If you think you'll get push back from others be sure to select a lawyer that has a lot of litigation practice.

    I went to the courthouse and pulled files off the probate court index and read them until I got a feel for the attorneys. And how the judges responded to their motions.

    Some estate lawyers have a tidy practice cranking out documents and giving terrific advise but if you're needing a fighter select one early to avoid paying for a letter war .

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
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AL = Assisted Living
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