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Traumatic Head Injury and Rapid Decline

Several months ago, my DW was assaulted by an employee at her MCF. The attack resulted in serious injury to her head and a couple of weeks in the hospital. Prior to the injury DW could perform all Activities of Daily Living quite well. I was able to take her out of the facility for dinner and rides around town. To be sure, she was mid-stage but functioned fairly well. After the injury and release from the hospital, she declined very rapidly. Within two months she could not walk, speak or feed herself and was placed on hospice care. I'm convinced this extremely rapid decline was the result of the head trauma. Anyone else seen or experienced anything like this?

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  • M1
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    Hate to say it, but have you spoken with an attorney? Absolutely, her decline is likely related to the attack.

  • ​fesk
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    I am so very sorry that happened.

  • Buggytoo
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    What a horrible experience for your wife and you. My husband who has Alzheimer's fell off the roof of our house and had a traumatic brain injury among other injuries. Since that event, his decline has been rapid. When I have asked his various physicians about the correlation, they seem to be in agreement that the traumatic brain injury has sped up the decline from Alzheimer's.

  • easy23
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    Yes, I would consult with an attorney.

    My DH had an accident with an e-bike. He skidded, went flying off the bike and banged his head on the curb (he was wearing a helmet). He had a traumatic brain injury. That is when he was diagnosed with dementia and the delusions started. He has not been the same since then.

  • jsps139_
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    I just hate hearing things like that. How awful for both of you. It is just terrible that they have employees not suited for the work they are required to do. My heart hurts for you both. ❤️

  • CindyBum
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    I am so very sorry. That's just awful and I hate that you and your love are going through this.

  • White Crane
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    I'm so sorry. What a horrible thing to happen. Like others have said, contact an attorney.

  • jfkoc
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    In addition to seeking legal advice I would have a consult with her private Dr and a Dr specializing in traumatic brain injury.

    Note; when corresponding with the MCF please do so in person. You do not want to have a he said/she said situation.

    I would not contact the MCF. Let the attorney take the lead!!!

  • brs
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    OMgoodness ! I'm so sorry for you and your wife.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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