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Merla
Merla Member Posts: 82
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edited November 2024 in Caring for a Parent

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  • JM27
    JM27 Member Posts: 146
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    Hi Merla,

    I have not heard of this. Let us know how it goes.

  • housefinch
    housefinch Member Posts: 457
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    My mom was able to do this at their local airport (medium sized city—not a big hub airport). She explained the situation at check in I think. I still think, though, that people with dementia could be a safety risk just being on a plane alone, if they’re past the very early stages. My mom allowed my stepdad to fly much later than I thought was ok.

  • JeriLynn66
    JeriLynn66 Member Posts: 962
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    Merla,

    TSA Cares Program and your airline should be able to assist. But what about her being on a plane alone? Will she be ok?

  • harshedbuzz
    harshedbuzz Member Posts: 4,801
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    Perhaps this could be the shoe dropping that makes it possible for you take steps you need to make to keep her safe.

  • H1235
    H1235 Member Posts: 720
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    On my phone I can mark certain contacts as emergency contacts. I believe emergency responders would know to look for this on a phone. If you haven’t already I would mark yourself as an emergency contact on her phone. It might not hurt to just give her a piece of paper with your contact information to put in her pocket or purse. If you do get a call that she has been found lost and confused I would use that as an opportunity to insist on an evaluation. I would not just fly there and pick her up. I hope it goes well.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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