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Time change

My husband is so confused and upset about the time change today. He just doesn’t understand when I explain it to him. He thinks something is going on that is bad, something is doing this to him. I thought things were going better the last 2-3 days, now this. Guess that’s the way it is. Will I ever get used to this?

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  • trottingalong
    trottingalong Member Posts: 419
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    edited November 3

    I too wonder if I will ever get accustomed to the changes. One day he’s doing fairly well and the next he’s confused almost all day.

  • jfkoc
    jfkoc Member Posts: 3,878
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    Everything in my house changes automatically so it is always smooth…no discussion

  • fmb
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    DH couldn't deal with the time change, either, thought it was a government conspiracy. During 2021 and 2022, we just kept the clocks on standard time. I was able to keep track of the accurate time for the few appointments that we had. We were basically hermits at that point anyway. After his stroke in June 2023, I told him I had to change to daylight savings time because I couldn't keep track of all of his doctor appointments. It threw him off, and he complained for weeks. Now I would give anything for him to be able to tell time at all…

  • JoseyWales
    JoseyWales Member Posts: 618
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    It's funny that the time change was one of the first signs I had that things were REALLY wrong with my husband. At that time he was still working, and he had a hard time wrapping his mind around the change, when it had always been a non-issue. Later on I just changed the clocks when he was sleeping, and didn't mention there had been a time change.

  • Biggles
    Biggles Member Posts: 94
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    That’s the best way. My DH doesn’t understand the time any longer or money for that matter and to make us smile … refused to get his hair cut cash out of his wallet after his last haircut. An Oldtime Barber seemed to understand; all was ok when I turned up and parted with the cash. DH thought he was being robbed, after a chat we had a bit of a laugh. Sad hey?

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