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Giving gifts to external caregivers

Just wondering if anyone gives Christmas gifts to your caregivers? We have one that comes in a couple of times a week. My DH is not at the stage yet where he needs a lot of on hands care except making sure he eats a good lunch but she is still there to support him. She does take care of things around the house while she is there and I am very grateful. I was thinking of giving her a gift card for Christmas. Just wondering what others do or if it is even appropriate.

Thanks!

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  • Russinator
    Russinator Member Posts: 38
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    It sounds like a great idea to me.

  • GiGi1963
    GiGi1963 Member Posts: 111
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    Absolutely give her a gift. She is a treasure.

  • fmb
    fmb Member Posts: 462
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    Unless she is employed by a company that prohibits direct gifts, I think it would be very appropriate to give her a small gift.

    Many facilities do prohibit direct gifts to a particular employee. Where DH resides, general gifts such as cookies, veggie & fruit trays, etc. are allowed but gifts to an individual employee are prohibited. It is always a good idea to check the facility policy before gift giving.

  • White Crane
    White Crane Member Posts: 909
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    Last yeat I gave DHs caregiver a gift card.

  • Carl46
    Carl46 Member Posts: 259
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    I don't have an external caregiver, but I give my housekeepers a cash Christmas gift every year. I just put a crisp, new bill in a Christmas card and leave it with the money I pay for their work that week.

  • Carmen M
    Carmen M Member Posts: 39
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    I have a private pay caregiver and I will give her a gift of one week's pay.

  • ImMaggieMae
    ImMaggieMae Member Posts: 1,041
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    We have a caregiver through an agency who comes a few days per week for 4 hours. We give her a gift card.

  • cdgbdr
    cdgbdr Member Posts: 79
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    I have a privately hired caregiver and I will give him something. He is extremely reliable and caring. That is not always easy to find.

  • jfkoc
    jfkoc Member Posts: 3,936
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    I love to "gift". I like to give something making certain the something can be easily exchanged.

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