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Mom is at peace now

lizzyt
lizzyt Member Posts: 16
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My mom has ended her journey with dementia. She became ill last week at her memory care facility and ended up in the hospital for 5 days. They did as much as they could without going to extreme measures. Probably more than she would have wanted. They made her comfortable and she passed quickly and peacefully.

I didn't post alot on this forum, but the wisdom and support of others was so valuable and appreciated. Just reading what others are going through has been helpful and comforting.

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  • SusanB-dil
    SusanB-dil Member Posts: 1,368
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    So sorry for the loss of your mom. She was blessed to have you watching out for her.

    Good to know that you got support from 'here'.

    My mom made it known while she still could, that she doesn't want extreme measures, either. I'm glad your mom was comfortable and peaceful.

    Now - make sure you take care of you! Some days will be better than others, and it will get better.

  • JeriLynn66
    JeriLynn66 Member Posts: 1,011
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    I'm sorry for the loss of your dear Mother. Peace be with you.

  • jen ht
    jen ht Member Posts: 92
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    I am sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Thinking of you and wishing you peace.

  • psg712
    psg712 Member Posts: 472
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    Very sorry for the loss of your mom. Peace and comfort for you.

  • fmb
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    I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. Wishing you strength for your journey in the days ahead.

  • roadwarrior
    roadwarrior Member Posts: 9
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    So very sorry for the loss of your mom. It is amazing how much help it can be to find support here. It seems to help one feel less alone and lost trying to navigate the very sad world of dementia.

    All the best as you work through your loss.

  • eaglemom
    eaglemom Member Posts: 719
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    I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom. It is very difficult. Take time for you in the upcoming days.

    eagle

  • ALCB
    ALCB Member Posts: 66
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. We're all thinking of you and wishing you peace and strength in the coming days.

  • mabelgirl
    mabelgirl Member Posts: 288
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    edited February 23

    May you find peace and comfort in the coming days. Having just lost my mother this month as well , it is still a small shock that’s she’s not here on earth with us. May your Mom rest in peace.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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