Coping


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Hi monicashanon - welcome to 'here', but sorry for the reason.
Yes - it is hard to see a LO like this. And this is why it is called 'the long good-bye' - because even though they are still with us, it isn't the same. and yeah, that hurts. Coping varies, depending on stages. You will always be able to interact with dad, it just won't be in the same manner.
Sometimes the first thing that comes up on the forum is getting paperwork in order - DPOA and HIPAA accesses. There is also a section for folks just starting into this journey. Check it out, come back often, read other posts… It is very helpful here with lots of advice and commiseration.
Another is to make sure the primary caregiver, in this case Mom, gets regular breaks from caregiving 24/7.
'this' is hard. ((hugs))
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More hugs for you. It is a different kind of grief, to mourn the loss of the person you love while they are still alive. Cry, talk, seek emotional and spiritual support from other loved ones, friends, faith community ... and come here for information and support. As much as friends may care, no one understands better than people who are going through something similar. This forum is the best!
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