Wanting to go outside all the time

NewCareGiver540

I am my DH primary caregiver and he can no longer be left alone. In the past few months I feel that so many things are changing. Since the weather is getting nicer he has started to say "I just want to go in the yard for a few minutes" . He comes back in 5 minutes and does not leave the property. But then he does it over and over all day long. Sometimes 20 times (I have counted). He does not remember that he just went 5 minutes ago and announces it as if he is doing it for the first time. This is becoming so stressful - I guess I am afraid he will wander, but also that this is SO repetitive. He has been repetitive with questions before, but now with actions is different. Any ideas? Is he so anxious that he needs to keep in motion? Thank you.

sandwichone123

Lots of people with dementia are restless. It could be worse, but I see where the stress is. My dh liked to go for walks, so I got an air tag I put on his key ring. I never needed to use it, but I did appreciate having it there. I special ordered one with a heart on it so he would want to keep it with him. :-) Later he couldn't go for walks at all.

Arrowhead

My wife went through that period also. We have a fenced yard with locks on the gates so I knew he couldn't wander off. It can be irritating to you, but it gives him something to do to pass the time. If he can be safe doing so, I'd say just let him. You will still need to check up on him.

SDianeL

anxiety and lack of memory cause what you describe. He needs constant supervision or he could wander unless he’s in a fenced yard with a locked gate. He will continue to do this unless you can redirect or distract him. If you haven’t done so, read the book “The 36 Hour Day” and search for Tam Cummings videos online. They are very helpful.