helping my brother with short term memory loss as his guardian

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Hello and welcome to the forum. Drinking and dementia are not a good combination—currently navigating this with my grandmother. Is he still drinking at the facility? Because of how his drinking started, it might work to switch him to a lower-alcohol content drink—it seems to me that what he's looking for is alcohol to cope, not a specific type of drink that he loves that he would be angry about if taken away. Are there any other family members that your brother could go to that would be willing/able to take him? I don't know the situation and this is very different for everyone, but I would recommend trying a lower alcohol drink, rationing him, and bringing him out of the facility and to a more home-y environment, whatever that may be. Being in his home could be comforting to him and mitigate his drinking somewhat—I know this sounds harsh, but is there any way to kick out your stepson?
Wishing you the best of luck in your endeavour, and know that you always have this community to ask questions or get comfort or just vent to.
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Since your brother has a diagnosis of dementia and resides in a memory care facility, he sounds like he is in the right place. He should not be sent home to an unsupervised situation. Everything that you mention is common. If you post on the General Caregiver board, you will get more responses relating to all of your concerns.
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