Refuses to brush teeth

annie51

Over time it’s gotten more and more difficult to get DH to brush. I first resigned to once a day, moved it from bedtime to morning when his mood was better, put the paste on both our brushes and hand him the brush. He knows what to do but now just gets mad and throws the brush in the sink because he “hates doing that and you know it”. I can sometimes get him to rinse with a fluoride rinse. I’m worried about what will happen. Are there any chewable something’s that I could try? Or any other advice?

Timmyd

A few thoughts.

If possible, try to increase the frequency of professional cleanings. My DW is now going every 3 to 4 months.

If you are not doing so, try an electric brush, it requires much less dexterity.

Take satisfaction in whatever results you are able to get. Try to feel good about what you were able to get done rather than feel bad about what did not get done. It is completely possible to maintain oral hygiene while brushing once a day.

I realize there are costs associated with these suggestions and many people have limited financial means. I do not mean to appear insensitive to those realities.

trottingalong

pick your battles. I gave up on this one. I did get Spry Gum. My dentist recommended it and my husband will chew that after a meal for a few minutes. It’s a dental defense system

annie51

https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/240070#Comment_240070

Thanks for the suggestions. I would be happy at this point if he did it once a day - now it’s been 3 days. He used to use an electric but seemed better with the manual for a while. I think I’ll try that again.
He does go more often to the hygienist so that’s a plus.

annie51

I’ll try this! Thank you.

Marchbanks

Currently dealing with the same thing, he used to be so particular about his teeth. Now, it’s an absolute struggle. No way could he sit through a teeth cleaning at this point. He has always hated gum of any kind so that’s out. I am fearful that he is going to have a dental problem of some kind that causes pain, then what? If he needs a crown it would only be possible if they put him out and I think going under anesthesia would not be good. Just one more thing to deal with.

annie51

https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/240096#Comment_240096

This is my worry also. He would have to be sedated…don’t know if they do that?

lvander

Try a water pik. If he can tolerate it, they are very effective.