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Sorry, Another Stupid Question

wose
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I’m sorry for being so needy today….My birthday is tomorrow and I was wondering if I could spend it alone without any adverse reactions for him. After the 911 incident I just wanted to be alone, but not if he’s affected adversely. His wayward son said he would come over. Thanks

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  • midge333
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    Yes, have his son watch him so you can get a day off. You are not needy; you are dealing with a tough situation. Good luck!

  • Biggles
    Biggles Member Posts: 375
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    Take the time and take the offer. We all know generally offers like this are few and far between. Being a carer is such a hard and demanding job, and the question you ask is definitely not stupid, the only stupid question is the one not asked. We are all in this terribly demanding situation.
    PS have a Happy Birthday 🎈

  • debriesea
    debriesea Member Posts: 35
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    Go and have a very happy birthday!!

  • Jgirl57
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    Have a great day! Don’t make a big deal about going or when you come back. Maybe have a treat for your husband when you return. You need some time to catch your breath and settle your thoughts after the week you have had.

  • JeriLynn66
    JeriLynn66 Member Posts: 1,050
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    Happy Birthday Wose. Take the day to do something for yourself.

  • Mint
    Mint Member Posts: 3,045
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    Happy Birthday Wose🎂💐🎈

  • Goodlife2025
    Goodlife2025 Member Posts: 46
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    Happy Birthday Wose - wishing you the start of a more peace-filled year ahead.

  • JoseyWales
    JoseyWales Member Posts: 635
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    Happy Birthday!

    Yes, spend it alone. Recharge. Enjoy your day.

  • midge333
    midge333 Member Posts: 477
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    Happy birthday @wose

  • trottingalong
    trottingalong Member Posts: 580
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    Wishing you a happy birthday @wose. Enjoy your special day no matter what you do. I hope you can just relax, you’ve been through the ringer.

  • ladyzetta
    ladyzetta Member Posts: 1,157
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    Happy Birthday 🎂 Wose.

    This is not a stupid question, I'm sure many of us feel this way at times,

    Go out and have lunch, go window shopping, get your hair done, there are so many things you can do. This is your day, you need it. Enjoy it. 🎂🙏🍔🚶‍♂️ Hugs Zetta 🫂

  • CindyBum
    CindyBum Member Posts: 408
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    Happy birthday! You deserve a day to yourself and then some

  • Beachfan
    Beachfan Member Posts: 811
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    Go, don’t look back! Shop for flowers, get a manicure, walk in the park, read a book!! Make it your happy birthday. As my late mom always said, “I prefer my own company.” Truer words…….

  • Jazzma
    Jazzma Member Posts: 168
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    The day is absolutely, completely about you. Those days are rare, so make the very most of it — whatever will feel good and fill you up. Maybe wayward son can come again sometimes?

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