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Father going into Nursing Home - I am devastated

Mav2126
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After multiple hospital visits in the past month my sister has been really pushing that we need to put him in a nursing home. I understand the need and know I can't possibly take care of him on my own. It still really devastates me, makes me extremely sad and upset, and guilty that we have to put him into a home. I am going to miss all the time we have spent together over the past few years. I desperately need his help for all those life decisions I have to make. He is a huge support structure for me. I am just so upset.
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I’m so very sorry. Thank you for reaching out to community, it is important. Keep reaching out.
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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
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EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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