Regressing



DH with ALZ…he has forgotten not only that he loves bbq ribs but also how to eat them. It suddenly occured to me that there have been a number of clues that his eating habits have regressed to early childhood. He now cuts all his foods …asparagus, long green beans, meats…into bite size pieces before eating. I asked him several weeks ago why he did that and he replied "that's what mom used to do." i see now that this part of him has changed.
The other thing is that I find I am having to wipe up small puddles around the toliet from his night time trips to the bathroom. This is pretty new.
And, now he can only remember one thing from a list of instructions. ie…put the bag of fertilizer on the top step, put it on the edge, make it facing the stairs downward. And, I can only ask him to do one thng at a time.
I am reminding myself that this is a slow and long goodbye to the man I married 66 years ago. Thanking God for all those years. Praying for wisdom and patience.
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Be careful of meat. Make sure the pieces are small and not tough. Meat can be a choking hazard.
Iris
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Yes, as the disease progresses, eating habits change and regress. A couple of weeks ago, my DH did not know what a fork was.
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My DH now only eats soft foods….
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I have seen some strange eating habits come up as the disease progresses - mixing foods together, trying to cut pizza crust with knife and fork, etc. He will still eat everything I give him… and I mean EVERYTHING. He will ask for a spoon or use his fingers to get every last morsel of food, every last drop of sauce, syrup, salad dressing, whatever. I’m waiting for him to start licking the plate. 😋
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They make disposable mats for around the toilet. A bright red toilet seat and well lit bathroom may also help.
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