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Progression and caregiver changes

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cdgbdr
cdgbdr Member Posts: 200
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DH continued to decline with the rivastigmine and has developed significant hallucinations and a persistent delusion about a dead friend who isn't dead. The companion who had been with him almost a year quit because he couldn't tolerate DH's rants and accusations. He was started on Trazodone and Buspirone due to his cardiac disease but that wasn't enough to chill him out after a couple of months. So now, he's on Seroquel. I found a new caregiver who starts tomorrow and has more experience. Pray for us. My S-I-L and I are taking a trip with him this week.

I toured another memory care last week that I liked. I'm actually filling put the app for future needs.

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  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 1,866
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    thanks for the update. Hope the new meds work well for your DH and hope the trip goes well. Good to be prepared with the MC facility. 💜

  • Anonymousjpl123
    Anonymousjpl123 Member Posts: 801
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    this is so hard. Glad you are taking a trip. Seroquel did wonders for my mom. Maybe she’s a bit less alert but it is worth the reduced anxiety and depression by a mile.

    finding a good MC takes time. I’m glad you found one, if/when you need it.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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