where do I go for help

feelingalone2

my DW is starting to become more aggressive, angry sometimes. There are times I have felt like calling the police but I don't want to do that. Should I call a crisis center instead when she becomes violent and angry? Also, any suggestions on who to reach out to for adult day care centers etc.??

TIA

easy23

I have called the police for my DH and they called for an ambulance each time. It was good to get my DH checked out at the ER to make sure he didn’t have a UTI or other problem.

While at the hospital you could ask for a geripsych evaluation. Your wife may need to be admitted to be put on medication for her aggressive behavior.

My DH is on depakote and risperidone and still has outbursts, but it is better than before.

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RetaMeta55

I have called the police a few times and called the crisis team in my area. Both were very helpful. I had him admitted to a Geri psych unit of the hospital. While there he was started on Olanzapine. Now in an assisted living home. For the question of an adult day program, reach out to your local department of aging.

Carl46

I found an adult day care center by word of mouth, but the Office of Aging can probably help you find one where you live. She will need to get that anger under control before she can do that, though. My wife did well on a small dose of an antipsychotic medication for Alzheimer's-related agitation.

Dio

Don't hesitate to call the police if safety is at risk. A trip to the ER may help, especially if you have a geripsych unit in your area. Seriously, when behavior is volatile or aggressive, please be mindful of safety for both of you. Police in my neighborhood were very respectful and well trained. One tip is that if ER calls for you to take patient home, do not feel you have to if the issue has not been resolved.

JeriLynn66

The Alz Association has a number 1-800-272-3900 you can call and ask for a Care Consultant. They are licensed and trained Social Workers to assist you with locating resources and suggestions for dealing with behaviors. Give them a call. Sending you hugs.