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llf0701
llf0701 Member Posts: 2
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Hi,

I'm new to this group. We have no diagnosis but I am starting to wonder what is going on. My husband is a different person at night, usually after 10 pm He becomes defiant, combative, and says things that are just typical of his normal behavior. Is this Sundowning?

Thanks

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  • llf0701
    llf0701 Member Posts: 2
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    oops - NOT typical of his normal behavior.

  • Gator1976
    Gator1976 Member Posts: 59
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    yes, it sounds like sundowning. Maybe best to consult a neurologist or psychiatrist to determine the best course to control this. Best to you, it all will keep changing, good luck

  • Metta
    Metta Member Posts: 8
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    Seeking help early is a good idea. I was amazed that our first appointment with a neurologist was going to be a 9 month wait. He was peeing all over the house and his memory was declining at a rapid pace, in addition to sundowning agitation. I called for an appointment every week until there was a cancellation opening available. All the tests can take months, and you need help ASAP before a possible episode of violence. Glad you are here.

  • LearningCurve
    LearningCurve Member Posts: 23
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    Were I in your shoes I would move quickly. Try to get appt with Primary Care Doctor ASAP. Folks often recommend making a call to Alz Helpline 24/7, 800-272-3900.

    I am still a big learning curve. This is a wonderful group!

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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