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At home caregiver help

ReineckeB
ReineckeB Member Posts: 19
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Hello All!

I am looking into hiring a helper for the weekdays for my Mom. I feel like she needs more attention than we can give her. What kind of questions should I ask a potential helper? I am meeting with a facility that hires out helpers this Saturday. I have vetted the company itself as much as I can online. I am meeting them and hopefully the person that might be helping. Does anyone have advice for me? Anything I need to look at?

Any and all help, as usual, is so appreciated!

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  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 2,173
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    The facility will ask you questions and evaluate your needs. Make a list of what you would like the person to do. I didn’t meet the caregiver until she showed up the first time. So the first time I stayed at home with them. Ask if they give medications. In Florida a CNA could not give meds. Ask for someone familiar with dementia patients. Most do light housekeeping and will fix a light lunch. Have them clarify what specifically is included if you want them to do that. Will they take the PWD outside? Some will take them to doctor appointments, some won’t.

  • Colacho10
    Colacho10 Member Posts: 34
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    Firstly, you'll want to understand the agency's process. Ask them about their vetting procedures, what they do if a helper can't make it, and what their policies are for things like a trial period.

    Next, the helper's experience and personality. Try to get a sense of how they approach their work. Ask them what they enjoy most about helping others and how they would handle different scenarios that might come up with your mom.

    Pay close attention to how the helper interacts with you and, if possible, your mom. A good personal connection is just as important as experience. Take your time and trust your gut.

    Besides that, watch out for red flags. Be cautious if the agency is vague about their screening process or payment details, or if the helper gives unclear answers or speaks negatively about past clients.

  • Victoriaredux
    Victoriaredux Member Posts: 33
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    Ask WHEN they last ran a DMV and background check for each helper. Don't accept a ' of course -it's our policy' you want the DATE for THAT person. Placement reps may get a commission ……

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DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
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AL = Assisted Living
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