His Battle Has Ended

Daughter of a Marine

The love of my life, my DH Joe, lost his battle with dementia on October 31. He was diagnosed 15 years ago and progression was slow until the last year when he was in memory care. It broke my heart to move him there but it got to the point where I couldn't keep him or myself safe. Hardest decision of my life. In Aug/Sept, his confusion and agitation worsened and we tried medication adjustments. In Oct, he stopped walking, talking, eating, drinking and swallowing. Memory staff were shocked at the sudden decline since even as he was progressing, he always said Thank You after a shower (which he hated). He was a big man (known as Big Joe) but was known as a teddy bear who took the hand of other residents and said God bless you. Our children and grandchildren were there as he took his last breath and i will never be the same. He was 78 and I had hoped for 10 more years of fishing, horseshoe and bag tournaments, dog walks, and family celebrations he'd loved. I can't thank you all enough for sharing your thoughts and experiences over these years. I'd prayed God would shorten his dementia journey and am so very grateful that He did. That said, I will never stop missing my love and will look forward to our great reunion one day. I will continue to pray for you all. Rest In Peace my love.

annie51

My deepest condolences in the loss of Joe. You’ve fought a tough battle but your DH is finally free of this terrible disease. You’re in my heart and in my prayers.

SDianeL

I’m so sorry for your loss. My DH Lonny also declined rapidly which I now see as a blessing. You were a great caregiver to your DH and made sure he was safe and well cared for. Cherish the beautiful memories you made together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 🙏💜

Vitruvius

My sincere condolences. I wish you peace and strength in the days ahead.

Karen711

My heartfelt condolences to you dear Daughter of a Marine. I know your heart is broken in a million pieces. I hope you find some peace in knowing you were there for him every step of the way. 💜

Metta

May you be blessed with remembering the best years and family love. Prayers and love to you.

Chance Rider

I’m so sorry for the loss of your DH Joe. I hope you can find comfort in knowing he is at last free of this wretched disease and able to rest in peace. My thoughts are with you and your family 💜

jgreen

Hugs and prayers for you, Daughter. Please check in every now and again to let us know how you are doing.

Goodlife2025

May His peace be with you and your family. So sorry for the loss of your dear Joe.

harshedbuzz

I'm sorry for the loss of your dear Joe.

HB

marier

Sending you hugs as well as my thoughts and prayers for you and Joe.

tonyac2

So sorry for your loss of the love of your life. Prayers for you and your family.

JeriLynn66

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Joe. May the Lord comfort you and yours in this time.

Palmetto Peg

I'm so sorry about your loss. We all know it will come, but I don't think any of us will every truly be ready. I know I am not. I wish you peace and healing during this sad time. Keep those memories close to your heart. 💜

White Crane

My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear Joe. May God bless you with peace in the coming days and may you remember the good times.