Moving to a Care home.

Big Papa2760

My DW is being moved to a care home. She constantly screams at me. She has been in the hospital for 5 days now. Tomorrow she will be moved to a care home. Today I got her bed etc. moved to the care home. Tomorrow the hospital will move her to the care home. I'm so tired, drained and hurt. She spent most of the day hollowing at me and telling me what a horrible person I was because I'm abandoning her and then screams at me that she wants a divorce. How can you not be hurt by this. I'm sorry I'm exhausted and just need to go to sleep. thanks for letting me vent.

Goodlife2025

Hugs to you Big Papa, I hope you are able to get some much needed rest and sending your a big virtual hug for what was a really hard day, on top of a really hard week, on top of it all……..

Biggles

Life shouldn’t be this hard but for some of us it is. What terrible things you are going through. Hopefully you will be up for some rest and peace very soon. Hugs.

H1235

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. The mental game dementia plays on our loved ones and in turn us caregivers is horrible, soul crushing, and heartbreaking.

CindyBum

Ouch! Let it out, Big Papa. I know you’re doing the best thing for your DW and for you.

Big hug