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Why isn't Alzheimer's mentioned more?

Jeff H
Jeff H Member Posts: 147
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So, here we all are. Why isn't Alzheimer's and dementia talked about more in our society? It's crippling and life-altering to us caregivers and our loved ones. My DW has it. Her mother has it. Her grandmother had it. My dad had it. My uncle had hit. My brother-in-law's brother has it and my 1st cousins wife has it.

It's an epidemic and you don't hear anything about Alzheimer's or dementia in the media. Maybe because it's associated with getting old? Well, my DW is only 66 years old!

I'm sad and mad.
Sorry, just venting tonight.

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  • persevere
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    Agree. Just as they are chasing down autism they ought to be doing the same with dementia. It is an epidemic. History is going to show that the increase in preservatives, medications, plastics, etc are causing this increase.

  • H1235
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    edited January 25

    The quick test the pcp did in the office was an absolute joke. I had to insist on a referral to a neurologist. The neurologist told us right away she needs to stop driving and should not live alone. If things were that bad, how is it the pcp could have no clue? Couldn’t they come up with a better test for the pcp than what is currently being used? Shouldn’t family observations be considered? Instead they brush it off as old age. We were very lucky with our neurologist. She told us she shouldn’t drive and should not live alone. She also recommended we see a lawyer asap. Too many neurologists stay out of family decisions (maybe for legal reasons) and leave family to flounder and figure these things out for themselves. These changes would not be major medical breakthroughs, just common sense. Maybe part of the problem with diagnosis is that people with dementia don’t believe there is anything wrong. Doctors and government are so concerned about their rights that patients go undiagnosed and untreated.

  • harshedbuzz
    harshedbuzz Member Posts: 6,373
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    Exactly.

    I had some concerns about my mom and while her PCP did take our concerns seriously and did order bloodwork/imaging. He did an abbreviated version of the MoCA (like 3 questions) which she passed. Mom's Lyme Disease test came back positive, she was treated and improved somewhat but he still encouraged me to escalate to the memory center where the waitlist is 12+ months.

    Mom was contacted by the research arm of the memory center to participate in study developing an improved test for use by PCPs. I was there when she did their screening on Zoom. It was pretty much a MMSE/MoCA type test plus some physical tasks and walking. Mom blew off the serial subtraction by 7s using a joke and yet we were still told she shows no concern at this time. I mean "uses humor to avoid answering questions" is literally from the DBAT Stage 3 checklist.

  • Maru
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    I am struck with how "with it" all these remarks are, yet, I am sure that I am not the only pretty old senior here. I don't think senility is the norm for the aged but that there are root causes…diet, alcohol abuse and all the other things listed above plus some we haven't even thought of. Even the genetic component doesn't explain it as many who have the "bad gene" still don't develop Alzheimers.

    H. Buzz made a very acute observation. The caretakers are really the ones who know how awful, awful, awful dementia is. Even loving family members who see Dad or Mom once a week don't really know. The one who are the most affected and should be out there advocating for research, more and better Memory Care Centers, free home help are the very ones who are have no energy left except for caretaking.

    And, then there is this…dementia, Alzheimers and all the other types, are largely a disease of the elderly, the disposable.

  • sandwichone123
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    I think another major reason it's not talked about is that it's so expensive. That's a major reason it's not covered by Medicare. If the wider society had to pay for all the care currently provided as unpaid labor it would seriously upend our economic system.

  • Sunfish47
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    https://hms.harvard.edu/news/could-lithium-explain-treat-alzheimers-disease

    Hope you can see this link to the recent Harvard study news. My daughter got some Lithium Orotate for me. It’s a very low dose, inexpensive. I’m 76 and still all here mentally and trying to stay that way. My DH is stage 5 Alzheimer’s and started showing symptoms about age 78-79.

  • BPS
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    We were lucky if you can call any of this luck. I printed out a SAGE (Self Administered Gerocognitive Examination test) off the internet and had my wife take it. Then I took that to her PCP and he didn't know about it but he took the time to look at it and from that he knew there was a problem and referred her to a neurologist pretty early in her disease. That was 10 years ago now. I don't think a lot of PCP would take the time to look at it.

  • H1235
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    Mom is currently in stage 4 /5 and in a nursing home. There is a care plan meeting next month and they have invited her to the meeting. Anosognosia is a huge part of dementia at this stage. How is it a care facility could be so out of touch to invite a person who thinks she doesn’t need care to a meeting to discuss her care needs. Everyone here knows you don’t point out the symptoms and limitations of a person with dementia to them. How can a care facility not know this?

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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