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Wearing Depends

Nosokoma
Nosokoma Member Posts: 9
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My 79 y/o brother has MS and Alzheimer's. He's experiencing urinary and bowel incontinence and refuses to wear Depends. He doesn't wear underwear because it slows down his ability to use the toilet. (He can barely stand and transfer from wheelchair to the commode, requiring a pole for support. Has anyone found a solution to something similar?

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  • harshedbuzz
    harshedbuzz Member Posts: 6,936
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    @Nosokoma

    A toileting schedule and assistance might help with this. Typically, an aide would toilet your DB about 20-30 minutes after a meal and every 2 hours in between.

    HB

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
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