Only advocate and caregiver for grandma

Thank you and yes I am the healthcare POA. The nursing home took away her floor mattress in her bedroom and she recently rolled out of bed (fortunately no major injuries). It took me three days to have the mattress returned after calling for repeatedly requesting it be returned. Someone made a decision that since she had not fallen in a few months they would take the mattress out. SMH.The staff failed to tell me that she has lost weight in the past few weeks. She is in pain no doubt either from swallowing difficulties or swollen lymph nodes or teeth issues.I wanted her meals pureed instead of mechanical soft. Im trying so hard to be patient but some of the decisions made in the past year since a new administrator took over have been absolute maddening. Fortunately I was able to get a hold of the social worker on the first try and he connected me with a Hospice RN the same day. Then I cried tears of joy when she was approved for hospice Saturday while I was visiting and the RN immediately ordered pureed food and she met with a chaplain, social worker, volunteer Aide and RN on Monday and Tuesday. This has been tough since they predict that she only has a few month...but I'm relieved that she is now finally getting the care she deserves. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!

Thank you. I appreciate your kindness. It has been a lengthy journey adn I truly believe I have sone everything in my power to get her the best care and advocacy. I found out recently that the county I live in gives preferential priority to their residents in their continuum of care and rarely accept out of towners.