Legs giving out

Petra2024 · August 29

DH fell in the bathroom— he’s on blood thinners and I was told months ago by doc and visiting nurse that if he falls he needs to go to the hospital to check there are no blood clots. So here we are. I called an ambulance because i could barely get him up and knew I couldn’t get him to a car service safely (I don’t drive)… now I don’t know how I’ll get him home. They may admit him but if not I’ll have to get him home somehow. I was handling things pretty well from a practical standpoint but now the trouble with walking is a whole new ballgame. Another chapter… saw his heart doc and neurologist today and at the appointments he was having much more trouble than usual with walking … his heart is doing well with pacemaker and meds so apparently the brain is the issue with walking and maybe even some of the cognitive issues — may be hydrocephalus (nph?) … I guess the hospital will know how I can get medical transportation home… but sitting in the ER I finally remembered this board is here and I thought posting might help somehow.

Iris L. · August 29

Blood thinners: consider desired effect versus side effect. Blood thinners can be problematic in frail patients who have a tendency to fall, and possibly have a brain bleed, it may be difficult to get control of the blood loss. Discuss with the prescribing physician how to proceed.

Iris

Petra2024 · August 29

https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/221018#Comment_221018

thanks Iris L, I will — he had a mini stroke last year when just on aspirin and they put him back on blood thinners— but now that things are changing balance-wise I’ll ask about it again..

Petra2024 · August 29

hmmm ER blood tests came back positive for an infection — so they’re starting IV antibiotics …Hoping some things will improve. I was feeling like I was being overly cautious by bringing him to the ER but now I’m glad.

M1 · August 29

So sorry Petra. Iris is entirely right that the blood thinners become very problematic and risky. At some point it may make more sense to accept the stroke risk rather than risk a bleed. If he truly becomes unable to walk id ask about a hospice evaluation.

Victoriaredux · August 29

When it comes time to take him home - if you have medicare do not allow him to be taken until you have a letter from the Dr in hand that the ambulance ride is medically necessary and why he needs a trained ambulance crew - if they just chk a box " med necc" Medicare computers automatically deny return ambulance for trips home and the cost is up there .

Also, that the ride is at the lowest level Dr feels appropriate— if a full amb why over a one person gurney transport if a gurney one person why over a wheelchair level etc .

fesk · August 29

Hopefully, once the infection clears you'll see an improvement. If you haven't already, please check all medicine for interactions. Years ago my mother had issues where she was fainting, etc. Once we changed one of her medications, the problem resolved.

Petra2024 · August 30

Thank you all— turns out he has pneumonia and may also have Normal Pressure Hydrocephalus — a neurosurgeon is evaluating whether he’s a candidate for that. … He was admitted this morning and I’m home alone tonight in the first time in a long time. It’s such a mix of feelings. Last night in ER was brutal with him agitated and trying to get out of bed as he was delirious and coughing/groaning on and on and he couldn’t say what he was feeling. I was there all night making sure he stayed in the bed. This morning he got a room, his doctors visited and the day nurse is really good— they put a bed alarm on so he can’t go wandering. I’m looking forward to a good night’s sleep— the heart doc who we’ve known for decades sent me home to rest — as he said, I can’t afford to get sick.
I know pneumonia could change everything but I also know DH has to fight this out— I can’t do it for him.
this board is like vitamins— you’re all so kind and generous with hard-earned wisdom.

Petra2024 · September 7

https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/221045#Comment_221045

thanks I’m going to keep this info for when I speak to social work dept when they work on transferring him to rehab next week.

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