Cleaning their bunn?

I'm finding the standing is easier. He is fairly steady when standing.

Definitely standing and sitting in between when he is feeling unsteady. We had a grab bar installed next to the toilet. The biggest challenge is when he goes or starts to go in his incontinence underwear. Keeping him standing and not sitting the wrong way on the toilet seat and messing that up can be a challenge. A few different types and sizes of wet wipes and rinse free cleaning sprays or wipes to finish up are good. Soft paper towels for the initial cleanup work well. I use the plastic grocery bags to throw in the used wipes as we go along so they can be taken out right away.

The first few times dealing with bowel incontinence were pretty awful. After the hundredth or so time it’s not that big of a deal. Having wipes and other supplies close by really helps. We spend a fortune on that kind of stuff.

My DH is not incontinent yet. What I have read on here… If you want to add a bidet, adding it sooner than later so they can get used to it is a good idea. Otherwise, they could be scared by the water suddenly hitting them. The other suggestion is to add the warm water if possible.

My LO (male) is incontinent also. I usually have him sitting on the toilet as I wipe the behind area and then I wipe the front area separately. If he has a bowel movement and doesn't quite make it to the toilet, yes it is a mess. I have to clean his behind first with tiolet paper, front with tiolet paper. Then I use the wet wipes to clean both areas. Then I have him standing, holding his walker while I first clean the tiolet seat with sanitizing wipes then clean the rest of his body like legs, areas I could not reach with his sitting with wet wipes. After his body parts are clean, he sits back down on a clean tiolet seat so he can relax since he can't stand for long periods. It is a process but we now have a system.