DH diagnosed in Moderate Stage
Our first appointment with Geriatric doctor today was good and i was happy with time she spent with my DH. She did some testing and after 3 years with MCI, was not surprised that he was diagnosed in Moderate stage. It is the longest stage, but can move faster with illness or life events. Since he is not displaying any hallucinations or wandering he will not be starting any psychotic meds. Have many of you been in Moderate Stage for long and taking any psychotic meds?
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We haven’t been tested yet with MCI but my DH has mild vascular dementia. I wonder when are we going to be required to take the test. His word salad has reduced since last year and neurological tests said his status is alert and oriented 3x to time, place and person.
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my DH had symptoms since 2020 and was diagnosed in 2021 and passed in August. There is no way to know how long each stage lasts. It depends on the area of the brain affected. My daughter-in-law is a nurse and advised me right after his diagnosis to get our affairs in order and start looking into memory care facilities. She had experience in caring for dementia patients. I kept a list of his behaviors and sent them to his doctors at least monthly or sooner if it was something he needed medication for. This helped them help me. I met a woman at memory care whose husband was in memory care 12 years so really no way to know. There may be plateaus and then steep declines before the next plateau. Just enjoy each day take one day at a time. 💜
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Thank you for your comments. My DH has declined in the last 3-6 months with very short memory and confusion at times. He is in good health except for a bad knee that causes him pain. I hope to take care of him as long as I can. Memory care all have a waiting list and what I hear from others it is best to get his name just in case. It’s a big step for me. I need to work on taking it a day at a time.
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Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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