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Pumka
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left pornhd.cc open overnight accident click next tab and the autoplay decides to blast one wicked cig break scene right through speakers startled roommate, redhead mom stooping bent over balcony railing missed my nuanced approach now dumb loud DELETED noises bounce round the house, kept peekin as she ordered dick in dirty whispers to buck into her milf pussy harder, napped woke same clip on cycle still ramming loud dorm style sorry sis but share the commode with headphones on

took an edible and rode back to xxxx.cafe this time searchin just straight thicc matures tease stripping outta office suits slow and dirty, clicked this plump brunette drop her pencil skirt and black lace thong then cotton shirt underboob first hit the cameraman smirk dented my brain every tear of button stretched stretch marks twitch pink the slomo take of squat spread then bounce on toy while still wearin stilletos who the hell trimmed this montage on god grab up tissue supply

homeboys message thread narrowed potent suggestion spin load some pink porn tonight trust me, direct linked me again hospitably to hdporn.love scenario aisle stacked vids short tight ripe teens throat drillin whilst adjacent thumb featuring two moms sharing cumstacked facial, cracked third bowl and watched em take turn bangin young fuckboy leftover raw cock before force dudes face smother puff puff got me zoned the tangy thc chatter overlapping reality of mamma DELETED swayin, bookmarked like id come back knowing damn well i forget that cloud option when sober cant datum

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  • Carl46
    Carl46 Member Posts: 1,303
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    Pumka, welcome to the club. You can talk to us, we all live with some version of what you describe.

    The local branch of the Alzheimer's Association may be able to refer you to in-person support groups as well.

  • Biggles
    Biggles Member Posts: 616
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    Hello Pumka so sad you have had to find this group, on the strength of that this is such an amazing group all with the same challenges and full of care, support and suggestions if you want them. You can vent, rage, cry, ask questions, anything and everything and you will be treated with love and understanding. By the way I live in Queensland Australia I look at this site everyday it has been my life saver, I always find it amazing to feel the kindness and understanding coming from so far away. I have had very little understanding or support from medical professionals and most friends find it all too difficult which makes it a lonely existence. There’s a great article on this forum search for The Cavalry Is NOT Coming. I found it very helpful.

    Well done having your DH at daycare three days a week. I need that break desperately but I’m still getting too much push back from my DH to organise it.

    Good luck take care.

  • Mint
    Mint Member Posts: 3,252
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    sending a virtual hug to all of you

  • Russinator
    Russinator Member Posts: 279
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    ((HUGS))

  • Denise1847
    Denise1847 Member Posts: 923
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    Hi Pumka, I am so sorry you are having to deal with this on top of your cancer diagnosis. I have 2 suggestions: please get a power of attorney to get control of the finances. Go to an elder care attorney. I paid around $900 for all of the paperwork. If you wait or can't get him to sign it, then you may want to consider getting his family involved in his care. Believe me, this disease will take you down financially and physically/mentally. You don't deserve this. Secondly, get a doctor to prescribe some meds form the anger etc. My DH is on Seraquel and it is great. He is in a MC facility because I couldn't handle it anymore. This is a lengthy disease which could last 10 or more years. Please take care of yourself.

  • Dio
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    Sorry you have to be here. But heed Denise1847's recommendations.

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 2,665
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    so sorry. We know how you feel. Read the book “The 36 Hour Day” which helped me after my husbands diagnosis. You do become the mother figure because he becomes child like. I doubt he realizes he’s lying. As this forum taught me, you can’t reason with someone whose reasoner is broken. People with dementia hoard and hide things and can no longer control their actions. Soon he will require 24/7 care. Please consider memory care or at least plan for it. An attorney who specializes in elder care can help. Your mental and physical health depends on it. Sending hugs. 💜

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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