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Anonymousjpl123
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edited July 4 in Caring for a Parent

Curious about garbled speech and wandering. Mom’s in MC, probably stage 6. Miraculously, her moods are good and she’s extremely well taken care of.

The past few months I’ve noticed her speech is more garbled. She frequently uses mashed up words, and most sentences don’t make sense. She’ll repeat syllables almost like a stutter, but no word.

Also, she has started wandering a LOT. Just up and down the hallways, and into people’s rooms. The staff are pros managing it - even take her on walks around the larger area when it’s slow. I do too. But it’s now near constant, we often walk the halls when I’m visiting.

Is this a new stage of dementia? Just part of progression in stage 6?

Her mood is good much of the time. She participates in activities, we still go to dinner at the nearby diner sometimes, when her one friend she’s still in touch with calls she knows her by name. And she still KNOWS stuff. She still understands me when I tell her about my day sometimes. The contrast is hard to understand. Yesterday I made a joke we should move to another state, and she said “no, I like PA.” I couldn’t believe she knew where we lived. She usually doesn’t. She’s fully incontinent and can’t dress herself etc.

What do you make of it? Stage 6? Normal progression? Just trying to make sense of it all.

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  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 1,748
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    Wandering can be in any stage of dementia. May be caused by anxiety. Is she on any medication? As long as she is in memory care and it’s managed I wouldn’t worry. Aphasia (language) issues usually occur in later stages due to progression. There really is no “normal” progression. It depends on many factors one of which is the part of the brain affected by the disease. I would look at the chart for stages and see what behaviors are listed there and see how many of her behaviors are stage 6 vs 7.

  • Anonymousjpl123
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    Yes, she has been in stage 6 the past year, with some real moments of stage 5. She can’t bathe or toilet herself or remember anything but she can go out and enjoy a meal with the other MC residents and staff.

    Her speech is much more garbled now. I’m only noticing because her friend mentioned it. She is very random it’s sometimes so strange. Tonight she said “Don’t ever call me mom. Only mother.” With an absolute straight face and has not said anything else. She wants me to stay, for the visit but wants to walk around without me. It’s all so weird.

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 1,748
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    yes, it’s all so weird. She is no longer able to reason so trying to make sense of it is impossible. Just know it’s the disease talking, not your Mom. Her speech may remain garbled or she may have moments of clarity. That happened to my DH. Nobody knows why. Someone here posted once that it was like the wires in their brain connected for a bit.

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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