combative at night
         Hi,
I'm new to this group. We have no diagnosis but I am starting to wonder what is going on. My husband is a different person at night, usually after 10 pm He becomes defiant, combative, and says things that are just typical of his normal behavior. Is this Sundowning?
Thanks
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oops - NOT typical of his normal behavior.
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yes, it sounds like sundowning. Maybe best to consult a neurologist or psychiatrist to determine the best course to control this. Best to you, it all will keep changing, good luck
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Seeking help early is a good idea. I was amazed that our first appointment with a neurologist was going to be a 9 month wait. He was peeing all over the house and his memory was declining at a rapid pace, in addition to sundowning agitation. I called for an appointment every week until there was a cancellation opening available. All the tests can take months, and you need help ASAP before a possible episode of violence. Glad you are here.
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Were I in your shoes I would move quickly. Try to get appt with Primary Care Doctor ASAP. Folks often recommend making a call to Alz Helpline 24/7, 800-272-3900.
I am still a big learning curve. This is a wonderful group!
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