Home Health Aides
Does anyone have any experience with introducing a home health aide to your household? My wife could use some companionship and appropriate mental stimulation, and maybe someone to supervise her showering and brushing her teeth.
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Welden, my DH is in MC but when he was home I had a wonderful aid who came and sat with him. They played cards or did puzzles and she would often bring him a little treat. We also had an aide who came twice a week to help with showering. Both of these were from the Area Agency on Aging. I called them early on and they provided respite help so I could leave the house for a while. If you Google your state's department of health and senior services, I think you can find them. Or you could just look up Area Agency on Aging. I hope this helps.
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I introduced our aid gradually. The first visit I stayed with them in our home the entire time. The next visit I left for only a brief time. As I began to sense DW was comfortable with the companion, I left them alone for longer periods of time.
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I would tell her the help is for you to do light housekeeping. The first time the aide came I stayed home with them. I went into the bedroom and let them get to know each other. The second time she came I left for a few minutes. The next week my DH asked if “his lady” was coming. I could then leave for 4 hours each week.
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