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JC5
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Reviewing Renewal on house and auto insurance and just wondering if I have to inform the auto insurance that husband has dementia and is no longer driving? By law do I have to do this? We still have his car but he doesn’t drive . Tks for your input

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  • Quilting brings calm
    Quilting brings calm Member Posts: 3,159
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    edited February 13

    Define ‘doesn’t drive’. If his license has expired or been revoked, you definitely need to tell your auto insurer that and remove him from the policy. Insurance companies will ask the state for driving records, often at renewal. They can cancel your policy if a person without a license is listed as a driver.

  • RetiredTeacher
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    My DH stopped driving after his last stroke 2 yrs ago. His processing speed and reaction time were extremely slow and I told him no more driving. I told him he wasn't safe to be driving. He did not drive again. When it was time to renew his llicense we went to DMV and got an ID card instead and notified our insurance I was the only driver

  • Gator1976
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    I highly recomend not letting him drive. You will be opening up yourself, him and all that you own to liability. If someone gits him or he hits someone else, it won’t matter you’ll be into a lawsuit you won’t win. Because?? You were aware he was impaired (yes, even if he still has a drivers license). I told the insurance company and they required me to take my wife to the DMC and surrender her drivers license, which I did. She now has a state issued ID card that looks like a drivers license. I did not safe anything on my auto insurance, go figure……..

  • wose
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    My auto insurance Erie Insurance, said it didn’t matter and he should be left on our policy because the covered liabilities would still apply to him even if he doesn’t drive or have a license. I think she said he’d still be covered if an uninsured motorist hit us even tho his license is revoked. Don’t know if it’s accurate for sure tho.

  • Timmyd
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    I think the answer may vary by state law and insurance company policy. I live in Texas and have State Farm. I was told it is State Farm policy that if I am married and my wife holds a valid driver's license, then she is required to be on my auto policy. In order to take her off the policy, I have to prove to State Farm that she is no longer licensed to drive. When I asked I got the sense this was State Farm policy and not Texas law, but I don't really trust my agent to be accurate source on Texas insurance law.

  • annie51
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    @JC5 you say that he is no longer driving but you don’t say if he has surrendered his license. When I called my insurance company to remove DH as a driver, they asked me specifically if he had surrendered his license. They also said all members of the household need to be listed on the policy, but that I would be listed as the only driver. I think maybe the premium went down when I removed him as a driver.

  • eligius
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    when I told State Farm that my wife was no longer driving and they could remove her from the policy I not only did not save any money, they charged me $10 for doing so. 😖

  • tonyac2
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    I have AAA and they work the same as State Farm, he has to be on the policy as long as his license is valid. I think he has two more years on his license.

  • harshedbuzz
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    @JC5

    Any time one ponders a question of legality, it's best to direct it to your elder law attorney. They would be the experts.

    I suspect that state law has as much to do with the answer as anything. In some states, doctors are required to report those unfit to drive for a host of reasons including cognitive impairment so the information may be reported in other ways.

    My parents' policy became voided if he drove by virtue of his medical diagnosis/medical advice not to drive regardless of whether it had been reported. I don't think the reduction in the cost of their policy was huge— they had 3 vehicles; it might be different with one.

    HB

  • BPS
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    My wife had two small accidents close together so she stopped driving, but our insurance was canceled. I told them that she had stopped driving and by that time had not driven for 6 months. They said as long as she had a license she would have to be on the policy. We had to go down and surrender her license and get a state ID card so I could still be insured.

  • Maru
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    edited February 15

    If he drives and has had a dementia diagnosis, insurance will not cover him if he has a wreck AND he will be held responsible for the wreck according to the legal system. The good news is that once he surrenders his license he will be off the insurance policy thereby saving money. That was how I got my DH to give up his license. We have USAA insurance and saved quite a bit with taking him off the policy.

  • Goodlife2025
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    We have Progressive. They took DW off but it did not save us one dime.

  • JC5
    JC5 Member Posts: 241
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    Thank you for the great advice. DH has a valid license, expires 2029, but he has not driven in over a year. I have a car and he has no access to keys. Will check with lawyer thank you

  • Timmyd
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    In our case I did some investigation. DW driver's license is still valid for a couple of years. Fortunately she agreed to give up driving years ago before any incident every occurred. My auto policy actually goes up a few dollars if I take her off, but I have to prove my spouse is not a licensed driver in order to take her off. Practically, it makes more sense just to leave her on the policy and wait until her license is up for renewal in a few years before deciding to change anything.

  • HollyBerry
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    This is interesting, because we just changed insurance carriers and I asked them specifically what to do about the 2 cars, one driver, and the house being owned by the non-driver. They wrote the homeowners policy in her name, the auto policy in mine, and listed both of us on the auto policy. I had a candid conversation with the agent and they went ahead with everything as if it wasn't a big deal. Maybe it varies by state?

  • Quilting brings calm
    Quilting brings calm Member Posts: 3,159
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    == They wrote the homeowners policy in her name, the auto policy in mine, and listed both of us on the auto policy. I had a candid conversation with the agent and they went ahead with everything as if it wasn't a big deal. Maybe it varies by state?==

    Is she listed as being a licensed driver or just as a member of the household? Some states require everyone living in the house to be listed due to the no fault medical coverage. And of course the homeowners should be in her name because she owns the house.

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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