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  • ronald71111
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    Good morning

    Ron

  • JeriLynn66
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    I started this post yesterday and never got back to finish 😜

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    HB, the round trip is 4000 miles according to BIL’s spreadsheet.

    I’ve cooked once so far- crockpot chicken tacos and fixins. We had leftovers one night. We have a fridge stocked with proteins for breakfast for DH. I have a pot roast defrosting to cook tomorrow while we galavant around Monument Valley Utah. We usually have lunch out wherever we are for the day. SIL is somewhat critical of everything so I try to review menus before we choose 🙄🙄🙄

    Loving the photos Iris. Beth, your flowers are so gorgeous!

    Ron, glad you were able to get settled down. Are you sleeping with your head elevated? Or are you restricted due to your surgery?

    @GothicGremlin Gigi had her baby yesterday and they both are doing fine. Don’t know the sex yet because she won’t let Grandson near the baby. But these are the pictures he sent this morning. Daddy is black with a bit of dappled coloring so I guess that accounts for the brown legs and ears .

    And then yesterday afternoon Big Red had her baby!!

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    Grandson goes to the house before and after work every day. The great grands show up with their Mom after school.

    Time to get the pot roast in the crockpot. A srray puppy showed up at our camper yesterday so she will eat well tonight 😋

    Have a great day everyone! TTYL

  • Russinator
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    edited April 22

    Good morning from SoCal. I had ChatGPT make this. It's my DW and myself. Yes I was a firefighter for 34 years. Now I'm a caretaker for my DW. Hope I did the photo upload correctly.

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  • Carl46
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    Good morning, Russ. That's a great picture. It would make a good book cover.

  • Mint
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    Good morning

  • BethL
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    HB, I used to use an Aveeno moisturizer with sunscreen that I really liked. They quit making it - now I will try your Cere Ve. I do like Cere Ve's moisturizing cream for my hands - I think they make good products.

  • jfkoc
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    So with all this talk I am sharing what is in my go to bathroom. Clarisonic cleanser, Ordinary Hyurlogic (sp)., Cerave sunscreen 30, Jergens lite-medium self tanner, Ultrasure deodorant. In the shower are Dial soap and. Jojoba oil. DoI have some kind of routine? Nope.

    Iris…the marble pic…wow. Ditto the breakfast selection!

    Ron…how is your wound coming along? No photo needed…I am TOTALY non medical.

    Exercise…went up stairs 3 times in row.

  • ronald71111
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    I am sooooo waiting for next week where I can start driving.

    Here in the front porch all of us share so much, we’ve became like a second family. I’ve told about finding out a lady at my church that I never knew, had trained my mother for her replacement as a bookkeeper and also that a gentleman at church I had been talking to for over a year was in my high school graduation class. My point is you never know about connections you might have without talking.

    Our front porch group has found that several others also made connections, just like Carl and myself finding how close to each other we are, which gave us the opportunity to meet. Since we’ve had the ability to share pictures we have been able to virtually tag alone on trips, see pictures of other rockers gardens and enjoyed recipe’s and even watched the sunset . There is so much more I could say, but I’ll close with one thought, I love all you guys and if I had the money I would find a way to meet each and every one of you in person, but this is second best.

    Ron

  • Lorita
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    edited April 22

    Afternoon, another cloudy, cool day.

    JeriLynn, you'll have fun getting acquainted with all the new babies when you get home. I think many of the.old westerns I watch were made in and around Monument Valley. Sounds like you all are having fun. How has the weather been? What kind of puppy found a home with you?

    Sweetwater, we talk about any and everything on our thread so I think it's a safe place.

    Welcome to our porch, Russ. I live way out in the country on a farm/ranch so we have volunteer fire departments and they do a wonderful job especially during early spring when we have a fire season before things green up. I really admire firemen who risk their lives to protect people and homes.

    Finally called Bryon to mow and to do a little tree work around the hackberry. I know I have waited too long because the grass is pretty tall and it's getting scary about lurking snakes and ticks but I have so enjoyed having grass in the yard. As soon as it gets hot and shady most of it will disappear. We have chances of rain and storms the next few days so we will see.

    Mint, are you doing okay? You're not posting as much lately. Are you going to plant tomatoes this year? Darwin has had his out for a couple of weeks and has already staked them. How is your mother doing these days?

    I saw Rusty on the air conditioner again this morning -I think he was looking for a way through the window. Gave him his peanuts again this morning so I know he is enjoying them. Maybe there will be.black walnuts again for him. I still wonder how he cracks them. Think I may have a little gelato-all the talk of it has made.me hungry for it.

    Ron, you expressed what I feel and I know many others have the same feelings. We have, indeed, become a virtual family.

    Enjoy your day, everyone.

  • jfkoc
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    edited April 22

    Yes, we are a very special group. Some of us have been chatting with other for 12+ years. Some just read, some leave and sadly, some have died.

    We have shared illness, family, recipes, trips, gardens, hobbies and more. We are chosen family!!!

  • Carl46
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    Rusty gnaws a hole in the walnut shell with his sharp front teeth. We have lots of walnuts and squirrels here and I've seen them do it.

  • ladyzetta
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    Good morning Rockers 😄

    GG. Thank you for thinking about me. I think we have been getting the same weather as you. You mention hail a few days ago, we also had hail. Today a lot of rain for all day, thats good we are trying to get grass to grow.

    Iris. The wine 🍷 bottles look so inviting along with the chicken and ribs. Just how do those lemon balls work? I might want some of those.

    Russinator. Those pictures are cute and your wife is beautiful, thank you.

    Judith. Your bathroom has more then mine. I got soap, shampoo, denture cleaner and deodorant. When I retired I got rid of all my make up. I also get a lot of exercise I go up stairs 3 times a day. I also take the fur babies out to potty. That tires me out.

    JeriLynn. Those babies are so cute, I would love to hold one. I bet your looking forward to getting home to do that. I hope that stray puppy fines its owner. You just might have to take it 🏡

    Not much happening on my end of the porch. We got us a nice BBQ, hoping to use it, but we are having so much rain it may be a week or so before we can us it.

    Hugs to all. Zetta

  • Goodlife2025
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    Carl and Lorita, I don't have any squirrels but it takes me a strong wack with a hammer to open my black walnuts. Their teeth must be incredibly strong. Maybe like a beaver they have to wear their teeth down as they continue to grow?

  • Iris L.
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    I agree, Ron, it would be nice to be able to all meet in person. It's nice to share our lives with each other.

    Lorita, we had such today sitting at an outside table in a piazza, which is a square. There were so many pigeons, waiting on crumbs that people dropped. I admit I crumbled up some bread and fed it to the pigeons. The restaurant staff spent a lot of effort in shoeing away the pigeons. One was so bold as to sit on our table and snatch some bruschetta. I wish I had taken a picture or video.

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    My minestrone soup

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    Italians dip their bread into extra virgin olive oil instead of using butter as a spread.

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    The bruschetta that the bold pigeon ate--not the whole thing, of course, but he got a few bites.

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    This was our outdoor café on the piazza.

    Iris

  • Goodlife2025
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    Iris, this looks delicious. The pastries in Europe somehow are just different than here. Not necessarily better but certainly worth a 2nd serving. Thanks for sharing

  • Lorita
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    Iris, you are a lady after my own heart- breaking up bread to feed to the pigeons. That is sweet - they have to eat, too.

    Carl and Goodlife, we used to have a big flat rock that had an indentation in it about the size of a walnut and half as deep. We could put the walnut in it, break it open and the pieces didn't fly everywhere.. There are walnut half shells all around the walnut tree- Rusty has been busy.

    Some of you all - Judith and Sandy, for sure,and others may remember years ago while we were still care giving talked about how nice it would be to have something like a commune where we would all live together in a big area, like on our farm, where we could help each other with caregiving and other things.. How's that for a long sentence! Just couldn't find a breaking place.

  • Lorita
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    Forgot to wish everyone Happy Earth Day!!

  • Goodlife2025
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    Lorita, what did you use to break the walnut open on the rock?

  • jfkoc
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    Iris….somewhere on that plaza is a Gelato store that is beloved by Florintines…Gelateria La Carraia In Santa Croce

  • Lorita
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    Probably a hammer or rock, Goodlife. My daddy's favorite cake was a two layer white cake. We split the layers to make four, then put vanilla pudding between layers sprinkled generously with.black walnuts. So good -wish I had a big piece now.

    Good night, everyone.

  • harshedbuzz
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    Good morning. It's sunny and headed for the low 70s on my end of the porch. So, yay!

    Judith— When you say Clarisonic do you mean the battery-operated device or a cleanser made to go with? When mine died after about 18 months, my derm told me she did not recommend them at all. I always thought it was great. I loved it.

    I'm more of a maximalist. I have so much "product"— styling products upstairs and down, same with skin stuff, and all manner of hairstyling devices including a fancy Dyson stick thingie. And don't get me started on makeup.

    Ron— It would be fun to have a Porch Family Reunion and meet everyone in person. I did that with a small group of moms who were raising young sons with what used to be called Aspergers (now ASD). Twenty-five years on, one of them is coming to Philly for the day for us to hang out— our "boys" are in their 30s now.

    I hope you're feeling stronger every day. Do you feel the surgery was a success or can't you tell yet? I commiserate with you on the driving. I didn't drive after my TKR for about 6 weeks. It was hard.

    Lorita— I thank you for running a place where we can all be different in our outlooks and lifestyles and still be and feel free to be who we are. It's the beauty of this place that we get to "meet" folks who are not like us.

    I thought of you yesterday as I was driving to the train, I passed the dairy where I get my milk. Both herds were out in the pastures. This place has brown and Holsteins. They're only ever out when the weather is ideal it seems. Both had a fair number of calves hanging near their moms.

    I wonder if Rusty breaks his nuts by dropping them as seagulls do with shellfish. Once when I was driving across the causeway into OCMD, a seagull perched on a streetlamp dropped a clam on my windshield to get it open. I don't know if he cracked the shell, but he got the windshield. When I called my insurance agent to make a claim, he could barely compose himself he was laughing so hard. Over the time I had it, I had to replace 2 windshields and a side window in that old Cherokee. Ice off a semi on the turnpike destroyed the windshield which was terrifying and a tech at the tire store had a tire iron slip out of his hand than through my passenger window. I think the car was cursed.

    Zetta— What sort of things will you be cooking on the BBQ when the rains finally stop?

    Iris— Thanks again for the pictures. This is the first food you've posted that made me hungry. The bread looks amazing. Most of the Italian places here also do the EVOO with their bread service. I had to laugh; the can of oil on the table is labeled in English. That's kind of odd.

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    I got my hair cut yesterday. It's been since early December, so we took a lot off. Maybe a bit too much but my hair grows fast; in 6 weeks I'll be complaining it's too long. The weather had cleared up, so I walked from the train station to a coffee shop and then to the salon and back to the station after which was about 1.5 miles roundtrip and the knee held up really well. Before my surgery, I would have taken a bus and then an Uber back. I think I may try the park over the weekend; I'd love to get back on the trails. I have mom stuff today and tomorrow. Hair today at 12:30 and she'll probably want to go to the grocery store. Tomorrow is the endo to talk about osteoporosis. I really don't think this is a great idea but mom does love to see doctors.

    I hope all have a pleasant and safe day.
    HB

  • ronald71111
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    Good morning

    Ron

  • BethL
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    I'm kind of a minimalist when it comes to makeup. I do have a skin care routine that includes Cetaphil gentle cleanser, hyaluronic acid and niacinamide, moisturizer and at night, differin gel. For makeup I use brow powder, mascara, lipstick and sometimes sunless tanner and powder foundation.

    Ron, hope you are healing well.

    HB, I hope the endo appt for your mom goes well. As you may know, there are many options in terms of bone meds. There are the antiresorptives which decrease the amount of bone breakdown, and the anabolics which build new bone. These meds are not without side effects, some severe such as atypical femur fractures and osteonecrosis of the jaw. You all will look at benefits and risks and make the decision that works for her. Hormone replacement therapy is another treatment too. Some say age to start it doesn't matter; some drs strongly disagree.

    Iris and JeriLynn thanks for the travel (and goat) news!

    Have a good day everyone. Beth

  • Sweetwater
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    Squirrels chew through the walnut shell with their teeth that grow continuously.

  • JeriLynn66
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    we’re off on a tour with Navajo Spirits- locally owned by Native Americans who were born and raised in Monument Valley. I’m looking forward to this part of our trip.

    Hope everyone has a pleasant day ❤️

  • jfkoc
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    HB…Clarisonic device and cleanser. The device will not charge after 10 years so I just scrub with it.

    JL….You are on a wonderful trip. Picss please. I have always wanted to spend the night in Chaco Canyon. I think it is near where you are going.

    Russinator…welcome to the porch. I have a special place in my heart for firemen. They do so much more thann put out fires. Your wife is lovely. She has a rocker on the porch too.

  • Carl46
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    Black walnut shells are really hard. You can crack pecans by holding two in your hand and squeezing and you can crack English walnuts with a nutcracker, but a black walnut requires a hammer and a nut pick. One of the uses for black walnut is polishing metal. The shells are crushed and sold as a polishing medium. I lost a thumbnail once cracking black walnuts. I was hammering on a walnut and my brother stepped on the board I was using as a base, moving it just enough to cause me to strike my thumb.

  • Lorita
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    I bet that hurt like the dickens, Carl. Did it grow back? Daddy was working as a stone mason and a rock fell on his great toe causing.him to lose his toenail. It grew back but every year it would come off and then have to grow back.

    I give Rusty peanuts in the shell every day so !maybe those are giving his teeth a workout until there are black walnuts again. We have a doggy door on the storage building out by the walnut tree and I find walnut husks in there, not shells.

    Dark, cloudy, windy and cool here. Storms predicted tonight and next two days. Need to feed.Billy today and give.him a little hay. He comes out of the.barn about 6:30 in the evenings to graze so is getting good grass.

    You all take care and enjoy your day.

  • ronald71111
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    Carl, I was wondering about why is was so easy to sell black walnuts, never knew about grinding to use for polishing. Here, they have two and one growing. I was told that someone around here buys them, now that my grandson is driving maybe he will have more of an incentive to pick them up.

    Ron

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