How to cope with early onset decline of my sister long distance

Christylee · June 6

Hi. I live in AZ, my sister and her family in WI. For some time she has had memory issues. She was only diagnosed 2 mths ago and is 66. Last weekend my nephew told me she is in decline, not eating, and is now in her own world. .I am going back to WI shortly. Personally I am crushed. As a nurse I know the support they need. I can be there. For myself, I’m floundering. Any advice?

Crawfsu · June 9

I’m so sorry you are going through this. I’ve been in a similar situation living a in the Northeast with a sister down south who was diagnosed at 57. I struggled with guilt of not being closer. I made as many trips as I could and always scheduled something meaningful to do together. On one trip I arranged horseback riding because that was something she loved as a young adult. The phone and/or facetime and zoom calls. Use the dementia consultants (Master’s level professionals) on the Alz help line to support you and your sister. They are great. It’s a hard journey and you take it one day at a time.

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Iffy49 · July 27

https://alzconnected.org/discussion/76226/how-to-cope-with-early-onset-decline-of-my-sister-long-distance

You said she has family. That should be the first resource. Let her family take the lead even if you think you know what is best for her.
You also said, “I can be there” . Please be careful to protect and value yourself.

How to cope with early onset decline of my sister long distance

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