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Update

I wrote on Sept. 9th about my DH breaking his left hip and wrist. At that time, the doctor did not think he was going to survive since his lungs were filling up. The hospital talked to us about hospice care and I was thinking that would be what would happen when he got back to his MC. After DH removed the cast on his wrist and then took off the brace they put on, he is finally in another cast and has left it on so far. He was close to death when I wrote but has made a remarkable recovery. His lungs are now clear and his hip and wrist are healing. He is still in some pain but nothing like it was earlier. And he has really surprised us by talking and making sense! He was discharged from the hospital yesterday afternoon back to his MC. The nurse called me last night and said he was doing well. They are going to keep him in the day room during the day and check on him every 15 minutes at night. He is also going to receive more physical therapy. I don't know if he will ever walk again but he isn't in pain. I guess God wasn't ready for him yet. As for me, I am totally exhausted and am trying to rest and catch up on much needed sleep. Our daughter and youngest son have gone back home. Our oldest son will be here this weekend for a week. Middle son was here last week also. He may still go on hospice but for now we will wait and see how he does. If he goes on hospice, he can't have any physical therapy and I do want him to have that for a while. Thank you dear forum friends for being here and thank you for your prayers and virtual hugs.

Brenda

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  • sfrsythe
    sfrsythe Member Posts: 47
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    All I can add is “I totally understand”. I pray blessings and rest be poured down on you!!!!

  • dcare45
    dcare45 Member Posts: 230
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    It made me happy to hear your family is showing up to support you. God Bless you and them. Give your DH a hardy handshake from me.

  • Chance Rider
    Chance Rider Member Posts: 390
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    Thank you, @White Crane, for the update. It was good to hear that he’s recovering well. So awesome to hear that your family is supporting you throughout. I hope you’re able to rest up now. Sending hugs 💜

  • Goodlife2025
    Goodlife2025 Member Posts: 490
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    Thank you for this update Brenda. If you don't mind me asking is your DH still on morphine? So glad to hear you have family support and take advantage of every offer.

  • BPS
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    My wife had a stroke over two years ago they talked about hospice. I told them that I wanted to try therapy first. She did well with it and was able to walk again with a walker then when she fell and broke her arm causing her not to be able to use a walker. Hospice was recommended again and I made the same decision you made to wait and see if therapy would help first. This time it was too much for her and it didn't help so she is on hospice, but she did get over a year of some mobility by trying therapy the first time.

  • annie51
    annie51 Member Posts: 817
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    Thank you so much, Brenda, for this update with some good news. The emotional roller coaster strikes again. I agree with the others about the support of your family. That must be very comforting, and I’m sure you can use some comfort!
    Will keep praying…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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