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A really good guy during a really bad day

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  • BethL
    BethL Member Posts: 886
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    Ed, I am so very sorry for your loss.

  • Nowhere
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    edited February 16

    Ed,

    A dad shouldn’t have to say this kind of goodbye to a daughter or a son. I’m so sorry for this burden on your heart. I love what butterfly wings described, that of a beautiful heavenly reunion between wife, son, and daughter - all healthy and so happy.

    May you continue seeing and receiving the best in people and circumstance. Thank goodness you are there for your family. You are a good man, husband, and father. Hold onto the happy memories and may they and Grace provide you peace.

  • White Crane
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    Dear Ed, I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. Please know that you are in my prayers. You have been such a blessing to me and to many others on this form. I wish you peace.

    Brenda

  • GothicGremlin
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    Ed, I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Please accept my deepest condolences.

  • GiGi1963
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    Ed, so sorry for your loss. Your daughter was blessed to have you in her life.

  • Emily 123
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    Ed, I'm so very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,091
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    Thank you everyone for your supportive comments. We have some people here from out of state, and more to come. So it will probably be a while before I'm back on the forum. As always, I will be thinking of you.

  • M1
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    Hope there is solace in the presence of friends and family. We are all thinking of you.

    Do you know this poem? Samuel Clemens/Mark Twain lost two of his three daughters as well as a son who died in infancy. Susy was his oldest and his favorite and died of meningitis. He wrote this poem for her tombstone that always brings me to tears:

    Warm summer sun, shine kindly here;

    Warm summer wind, blow softly here;

    Green sod above, lie light, lie light;

    Good night, dear heart; good night, good night.

  • tigersmom
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    Ed, I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear daughter. I wish you comfort and healing, and happier memories of days gone by.

  • Joe C.
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    Ed, My sincere condolences on the loss of your daughter. You have been through so much, please take care of yourself. I will keep you and you family in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Lane Simonian
    Lane Simonian Member Posts: 352
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    With deep sorrow over the loss of your loved ones. You mean a lot to those of us here.

  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,091
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    Thank you for the comments. We had the service Monday, and those left who were from out of town left last night.

  • Lills
    Lills Member Posts: 159
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    Ed,

    I'm so very sorry!

  • mommyandme (m&m)
    mommyandme (m&m) Member Posts: 1,468
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    Ed, I cannot imagine your heartache. I’m so sorry you’ve lost your daughter too, so soon after your son and wife. Please accept my humble condolences.

  • LJCHR
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    Ed, I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,091
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    Thank you, friends.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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