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Pooping in the Shower

Ossom
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edited December 23 in Caring for a Parent

Recently, we've observed a concerning shift in my father's behavior, which has added a new layer of complexity to our caregiving responsibilities. While my father's actions may seem intentional and without shame, it's essential to understand that this behavior is likely a result of his cognitive impairments and the progression of his condition.

As we've mentioned before, untreated Neurosyphilis can lead to various neurological complications, including tabes dorsalis, which affects the peripheral nerves and can cause difficulty with coordination and balance. In my father's case, this has led to a loss of inhibitions and a lack of awareness surrounding appropriate bathroom etiquette.

He now regularly enters the shower with the intention of pooping, seemingly without any concern for the implications of his actions or the impact on us or the plumbing.

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