She is gone

jfkoc

Thank you for sharing your wife with us here and for sharing your love story from the day you met. You let us in on your journey to places as well as into your heart. You helped in so many ways.

Please accept my deep sympathy along with the others…..Judith

Quietly they go, the intelligent, the witty, the brave.

I know.  But I do not approve.  And I am not resigned.

Edna St Vincent Mallay

CMC62

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace going forward.

GothicGremlin

Crushed, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife. You took such good care of her - I remember the photos you shared of your key lime pie-lets that you made for her (and other tasty things).

Your wife was an amazing woman, brought vividly to life here by you. Thank you for sharing her with us.

I wish you and your family peace and healing in the upcoming days, weeks, and years.

Anna2022

What a love story you shared with all of us! Thank you. I hope you find peace and comfort in the years ahead.

upstateAnn

Condolences.

Phoenix1966

I’m so sorry for all that was taken from you and your love over the course of this miserable, wretched disease.

Thank you for sharing your story and your partner with us over the years.

SDianeL

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and helping others who are caring for their loved ones. Praying for your comfort and strength in the coming days. May she rest in peace. 🙏💜

Jgirl57

Peace to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your journey with us. I have tears…

CassLoftis

https://alzconnected.org/discussion/73627/she-is-gone

So sorry for your loss.

blacksparky

🙏🙏🙏

hiya

Crushed, I’ve been following your story for a few years. You loved fiercely and cared for your sweet wife. Prayers for your family

shardy

So very sorry for your loss.

elainechem

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

eaglemom

Thank you for sharing your story and your brilliant loving wife with us on this journey. I'm glad her passing was peaceful and you were with her. Please accept my deepest condolences.

eagle

michiganpat

Crushed, Condolences to you and your family. Your love for your DW was so evident in your postings. May she rest in peace. Pat

Joe C.

Crushed, My sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved wife. You were a dedicated caregiver and advocate for her. You were also a great source of advice for me, I still have a copy of your 10 commandments for this journey that you posted years ago. May you find some peace in the days ahead.

ImMaggieMae

I’m so sorry for your loss.

CindyBum

My deepest condolences and gratitude that your lovely wife went peacefully. What a gift to her, you and your daughters.

Dunc1129

Crushed, my wife passed away over five years ago but I still come back to this site now and then to follow the journey's of those who were most helpful and kind to me during my struggles. You were an inspiration to me and gave me hope and advice so many times over the years. Thank you for all you have shared with the folks on this message board. I hope you find peace in the days ahead and I am so sorry for your loss

Lills

Crushed, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I 'met' you on this site in 2017 and have admired the love and care you gave to your wife. When my DH had FTD and ALS, I, of course, knew his condition was terminal. But…when he passed away, I was 'shocked'. I naively thought my grieving would somehow be lighter. Not. So, let yourself grieve your loss and be kind to yourself. Again, I'm so sorry!

John1965

Crushed,

I'm glad her suffering is over. I'd say yours too, but having read your posts over the past decade I know that you still miss her and love her. So, I hope your grief ebbs more than it flows. May her memory be a blessing.

My DW, diagnosed 10.5 years ago and in care coming up on three years, just turned sixty.

Thank you for all of the advice you gave me and the community over the years.

John

Karen711

Dear Crushed- I am so sorry for your loss. I’m glad she had you and your daughters by her side for her final moments. I hope you find some peace in the coming days💜

fmb

Crushed, I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying that you and your family find the strength and comfort you will need to navigate the totally alien world of Stage 8. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You have helped many of us more than you will ever know.

Larrybee

Crushed I am sorry for your loss. I hope you will continue to keep viewing the site and keep posting. Your knowledge of the law and the workings of the FDA can be helpful to some of us.

LindaLouise

https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/249241#Comment_249241

My DH is probably in his final few days - a sudden shift that caught me by surprise. I, too, thought I'd processed all the grief and his final year in a MC I thought had prepared me for being alone. However, I'm now realizing the sharp, painful and intense grief of the impending actual loss - in some ways, I appreciate the depth of love for my DH that this shows, but I also have felt caught of guard by the intensity of the pain and emotion. And we still have a few more days… I hope you are hanging in there - and thank you for sharing your part of this journey into Stage 8 . It really helps to know I'm not alone in these feelings…

Last Dance

Crushed, Like everybody says so sorry for your loss. I lost my wife eight years ago after 11 year battle with Alzheimer's I lost my son-in-law three years ago to a stroke and I lost my only daughter 58 years old last year to cancer. Some days life just sucks and I don't think we really ever get over their loss. I hardly ever come back to this site except for every once in a while and today was one of those days I keep wondering about you and your wife and how she was doing. You have truly been a help to this site I am so sorry that you had to be here but thank you for the information that you shared, the sad part about life for those of us who are on this site are like family and we all suffer each other's loss.