waste of time and energy
Hardly know whether to post this, I think I am just venting and looking for validation from people who understand. Right after my partner fell in early June, there was another attempt by her old "frenemy" to visit her without notifying me first. Fortunately the password system at the front desk worked and they didn't let her in. They told her she would need to check with me first, and she responded "that's the last person I want to talk to." Now—as if I needed the distraction—I get a letter from her partner asking for the password. No apology, no inquiry as to how I am doing or how she is doing. Just a request to please text them the password so they can visit.
I feel like no response would be passive aggressive. But geez, really? Like I need this on top of everything else. So after sleeping on it, I am composing a brief text to say that she isn't up for visitors (which is quite true) and a request to respect her desire for privacy. But honestly I feel like telling them to shove it, I don't owe them anything, and am incredulous at their selfishness. Is this as weird as I think it is?