Focus on the Now, the Positive, the Moments


My name is Vickie B. I turn 50 in 4 days, and I've been living with younger onset Alzheimer’s since 2021. Have I cried? Yep- a few short times. BUT I have made it my mission to not stay/live in my sadness. I choose daily to see and find beauty and joy around me. And if I have a bad day, I give myself some grace. Honestly, because of the outlook I've chosen, my life has been better and more fulfilling then pre-diagnosis.
I share this in the hopes that other like me can shift their mindset. And it's not just my mindset that's changed. I exercise like I should have been doing for the past 20+ years. Daily walks, regular cardio and strength training at a gym, and a complete diet overload have radically improved how I feel, my moods, and my sleep quality.
I'm also active with the Alzheimer’s Association and fundraise for them. They've given me a platform to share my story, struggles, and positivity- I speak about my journey publicly as often as I can.
Finally, for full transparency, this past winter was awful for me. There were days I could barely get out of bed. I slept 9-10 hours at night and would nap during the day. I had a hard time motivating myself to even eat, not to mention prepare a full meal. It was rough, It was scary, and I hated feeling like that.
I'm not all sunshine and rainbows- but I am fighting for my life each and every day. Here's to hoping we can lift one another up and inspire a continued fight. 💜
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Thank you sharing! I was diagnosed last year at age 54 and I too am living like I should have all along. Proper diet with lots of exercise. My relationship with my husband is stronger now than ever before. We'll celebrate 31 years of marriage this Summer. Grateful for whatever time I have, living each day!
Stay strong 💜
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