Fear of being alone

JackieM1961 · August 2

my mother has maybe stage 6 dementia and she is terrified of being alone, to the point where I can’t go into the bathroom without her. I don’t mind bringing her with me, or keeping her in eyesight at all times (which she needs for safety reasons anyway) but the terror and anxiety she is feeling is gut wrenching. I hold her and tell her I love her, I’m not going anywhere, and that I’m sorry she’s going through this, and ask her if she’s scared to which she starts crying and says yes, she’s very scared. I feel absolutely devastated because I don’t want her in pain. Has anyone else gone through this? If so, is this a stage of dementia that lasts for a while and then gets worse and isn’t scared anymore? Any suggestions you have for me to comfort her and give her peace? So far this has been the absolute worst stage and my heart is breaking for her.

JulietteBee · August 3

I have no personal experience with that but am truly sorry to hear of your mom's anxiety. Maybe her doctor could prescribe a mild anti-anxiety med and maybe playing Christian music or classical music throughout the day will help.

I have my mom's Alexa Show play Christian music from Pandora throughout the day. Her complaint though, is that she feels alone. I figure the music will give her other voices to hear over the sometimes deafening silence.

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