My Dad Died

I am sorry to hear about your dad. I haven't yet faced the death of my mom with dementia so I can't offer that experience. I do remember when my dad died after a long illness that I didn't cry for a while. I think I was so exhausted and it was such a relief to know that he was no longer suffering that my own loss didn't hit me till later.

Every person's experience with grief is different. Be kind to yourself and don't try to meet others' expectations. I think with dementia, we lose our LO bit by bit along the way - there's a lot of grief before the final goodbye. Prayers for peace and comfort for you.

I am so, so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved dad!

Everyone processes grief differently. My advice is to just let it happen how it happens. There are support groups out there and there is also a forum here for those who have lost their LO.

"Anticipatory grief"—where we begin to grieve our LO's death while they are still alive—is very real when caring for PWD. That doesn't mean you don't still have grieving to do, but maybe it lessens it some.

Be sure to reach out to this forum or find another outlet if you need help processing. Hugs to you in the coming days!

I'm sorry for the loss of your dad. Possibly, without knowing it, you've been preparing for this. Be kind to yourself. You will be filled with memories and emotions for a bit, all of which is quite normal.

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