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Mom describing eerie sense of loneliness

lilacgirl
lilacgirl Member Posts: 95
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One reason my mom decided on her own that she was ready to move to AL was that when she was living at home alone, she was feeling extreme loneliness in the evenings. She described it as something very eerie—just a weird sense of being all by herself in silence. She would sometimes describe feeling like her deceased mother or my deceased father was in the house somewhere with her.

Now that she has been in AL for over a month, she says she is starting to feel that same eerie loneliness in her room in the evenings. I'm just curious if this is something others have experienced. Is this a common symptom of dementia, or is this just legit loneliness??

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  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 3,421
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    just saw your post It could be either. I would talk to her doctor about depression. Maybe she’s having trouble describing her feelings? It must be awful for her. 💜

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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