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  • Marla13
    Marla13 Member Posts: 69
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    I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace.

  • RetiredTeacher
    RetiredTeacher Member Posts: 398
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    Healng thoughts and prayers for you. This is a rough journey for all of us and the only solace is understanding we are not alone. When you can, pls continue sharing and helping the rest of us to understand what lies ahead. It is helpful for me to learn from others that have travel this road. Praying you find oeace

  • tonyac2
    tonyac2 Member Posts: 314
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    I will, I’m getting close to being able to. I really want to dig deep into the critic that comes and criticizes the last hours and how you did this wrong that wrong. That critic is not new to me, it critic showed up almost every morning at 2 AM to give me a performance review of the previous day. It always showed up with the advantage of having hindsight when I was living it out in real time. That is so cruel.

  • Geot
    Geot Member Posts: 114
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    So sorry for the loss of your beloved husband Alan. I think all of us here will eventually experience the terrible loss that you are experiencing now but I think God I have found so many caring and supportive people here on this site. May God bless and take care of you in the years to come as you have for Alan.

  • shiawase12
    shiawase12 Member Posts: 95
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    I am so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace now.

    Thank you for sharing. I wish you peace in the coming days. Do be kind to yourself as you journey this new chapter.

    Sending hugs. 💕

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 3,421
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    edited July 14

    So very sorry for your loss. Cherish the beautiful memories you made. Alan was lucky to have you as his caregiver. We look forward to hearing from you. Please stay in touch. Love & hugs. 💜

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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